Dr. Simone’s Mind Space

Summer time, play time

Many parents around the world are currently spending more time with their children than during their usual working days. School holidays are usually longer than parents holiday weeks off work, resulting in lots of organization, additional financial costs, challenges to meet all family members’ needs, tension, family, couple’s vs. alone time.

 

How to deal with summer break as a family, couple, and individual parent?

 

A practical guide to summer school break:

• Discuss in advance your expectations.
• Plan extra buffer zones to remain spontaneous, flexible, and, reduce tension.
• Engage in activities as a family, yet also set aside time as a couple, and me time for each member.
• Organise support and child care in advance to secure the availability.
• Plan couple‘s time together.
• Agree on times during the day each one takes for me time.
• Meet friends over the day; your house isn’t a hotel.
• Surround yourself with people that feel like sunshine.
• Meet fellow ladies to spend some girls time and chat.
• Choose your own four walls, especially with small children!
• Order dinner in at nights heading to an overcrowded restaurant feels too much.
• Tension and conflicts are normal, when suddenly spending more time together and often in more constrained spaces, outside of anyone’s everyday routines. Get out and get some fresh air!

@drschwank

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How to cope with loneliness

After a wonderful time as a couple, leaving the baby with hid grandparents, to suddenly be all alone, needs adjustment!

Such a tough day, making one very sensitive, vulnerable, and thin skinned.

On such a day, it’s important to be extra kind and generous to ourselves.

 

Here comes a list of recommendations:

• Go to a cafe by yourself.
• Stroll around without clear agenda.
• Relax at a place you’d usually would go to.
• Take a nice yoga class.
• Enjoy nature.
• Ring a friend.

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent

Quality of life

How do we define life quality in its core?

Living in today’s societies, constantly being on is difficult. We run around 24/7 in our mind and physically always being on the go, planning the next activity, task etc.

Being and living in the moment isn’t even existing anymore. That’s very sad and concerning, with regards to our mental and physical health. It takes a lot of effort to get into a state of calm and relaxation, when the mind is constantly on overdrive.

 

Tips to unwind:

• Schedule some time in nature, a relaxing class.
• Go offline, everyday for an extended time.
• Observe yourself and your interpretation of relaxation.
• Set a 5min with no plan.

 

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent

Couples time: looking in each other’s eyes

It’s essential for young parents or busy working couples to take time to look into each other’s eyes. Dedicate time just for one another! It will maintain the relationship and spread happiness to all family members.

 

 

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent

Me time at the beach

Happy wife happy life, happy mommy happy family! In order to give, we need to be able to breathe ourselves. Make sure you spend some time alone. May it be a walk along the beach, a yoga class, reading a book uninterruptedly, getting a massage or good night sleep. We can only share our energy if there’s any left.

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent

A practical guide from a global female traveler

Working around the world calls for experience in preparation.

Travel planning:

1. Start your mental inspiration well in advance to imagine the place and increase your “Vorfreude” (anticipation excitement)
2. Pack outfits not clothes!
3. Work with accessories (scarfs, bags, shoes)
4. Shoes: pack a variety of comfort styles for all occasions and long walks!
5. For the flight: a comfortable outfit both for ground and up in the air (a list follows below)
6. For the lounge: focus on light meals, lots of water
7. Relax

 

Flight outfit and essentials:

• Compression socks
• Noise cancelling earphones
• Silk eye mask
• Skin care (sheet mask, cream mask, calming mist, hand cream, lip balm)
• SNACKS the more the better! You never know!
• Wear: cashmere sweater, tights, top, oversize shirt, silk scarf, mules!

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent

Morning Routines for a Confident Day

A guides for a morning routine designed to boost self-esteem and reduce anxiety for the day ahead.

 

Morning steps to self-esteem:

• Get up, look into the mirror and tell yourself: hi good morning, I’m just good enough right the way I am!
• Refresh and pamper your face with a daily practice.
• Practice a morning routine; yoga, meditation, running, a nice walk around the block, a swim. You’ll feel energised and calm for the day.
• Dress for success: choose an outfit you like, flatters your silhouette, and there with boost your self-confidence.
• Breakfast

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent

Visualization for Self-Empowerment

Teaches visualization techniques aimed at self-empowerment and managing anxiety.

How to boost your sense of self-empowerment?

Honestly, not an easy task to answer! We’re brilliant in second guessing ourselves, putting ourselves down, when in theory the exact opposite is what we should be doing! During my training and research, I’ve encountered several inspiring role models. My grandma, PhD supervisors, two incredible females, my PhD mentor, as well as the female opponent at my thesis defence. All these women have their own unique, genuine aura. They are confident in who they are, dare to take space or not if not needed, always willing to support younger women unconditionally, without jealousy, without competition, simply out of passion, and curiosity in sharing values.

Isn’t this amazing?!

That’s how we should get up every morning!!

 

Visualisation of female power:

• Think of a moment you truly felt in a stage of flow and competency. Go back there!
• Sometimes it helps to turn the world upside down! Inversions are great to reduce anxiety, increase blood flow, reduce swelling after a long flight, and rejuvenate (headstand, shoulder stand, legs up the wall for a more relaxing version)
• Envision yourself in a position you’d like to be. What do you need to get there?
• Have a positive outlook regarding success and failure.

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent

 

 

Quick Confidence Boosting Techniques

Today’s episode demonstrates fast and effective methods to boost confidence before important events or decisions.

How can we boost confidence before important events or decisions?

-Exercise and get an endorphin booster and reduce stress at the same time.

-Turn the world upside down, do an inversion pose such as headstand, shoulder stand. It will sharpen your attention, make you feel more confident, and calm.

-Present always standing, you can breathe better, reduce stress and anxiety. Standing up signifies a powerful posture.

-Dress for success. Wear clothes that convey confidence and feel powerful while wearing them.

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent

Understanding Self-Confidence

This episode explores how the psychology of self-confidence, impacts mental health, sprinkled with practical tips to enhance it.

Self-confidence starts in earliest childhood. It’s related to a feeling of autonomy and mastery. The earlier children are given the freedom of action to try new things, the more they grow their self-confidence. In order to gain self-confidence, we need to be able to trust in our abilities. A mental construct developed early. However, it can be enhanced later in life, by choosing activities, partnerships, that support your skills and passion.

Engage in actives that require your full attention and dedication, where you’re one with the action.

 

@drschwank

@optimalperformancezurich

@unesurcent